Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Oprah Moment (It's Over)

When you're in a relationship "It's over" are two words you definitely don't want to hear. Those two words will cause you so much pain and misery that it becomes unbearable. I think some of us do everything in our power to avoid pain by suppressing it, numbing it, or more than often inflecting it on others.

Yes, your hurting. Yes, you feel lost. Yes, you are cold. But don't let it consume you or you will be lost in your pain for years to come. Mourn the loss and try to put your life together. Keep busy but still make time to check in with your emotions. Talk to your friends that can help. Even if you feel like you are talking about it all the time, don't worry. You're friends are there.

Read the book PAIN by Yehuda Berg

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

I like how you have an Oprah Moment on your blog. Very cool!